Premature ejaculation (PE) means 'coming too quickly'. It's one of the commonest of all sexual problems. Approximately 40 per cent of total men face this problem 'always' or 'often' or 'sometimes'. It's more common in younger men, which is not surprising as there's a distinct tendency for it to improve with age. Men generally get better control, as they grow older. This problem is curable. Though not considered fatal,this problem makes people unhappy and frustrated and in several cases PE can threaten or even ruin a marriage - simply because it spoils the sex life of both partners.
Sometimes, the condition is so bad that the man cannot even manage to have intercourse because he invariably ejaculates before he gets into the vagina. This can be devastating for a man's self-confidence and it can be hugely frustrating and annoying for his partner too. However, most men merely find PE a considerable irritation - a condition that makes them 'come' soon after they enter their partner's (say, after only one to two minutes), so that neither party reaches the climax of enjoyment and satisfaction. One of the major contributors towards this problem is wrong or misadventurous sex practice during younger days. Anxiety ('nervousness') too plays a part in many cases of PE. If you're nervous, you're likely to 'come' too quickly. That's why many males have discovered for themselves that a small amount of alcohol eases their nerves and makes them less likely to reach climax prematurely. But alcohol is not recommended as a treatment. In very mild cases (for instance, if you can 'last' a good five minutes but would like to last 10), there is probably no point in going to a doctor because you should be able to improve matters by simple 'distraction techniques'. This means turning your mind to something else when you sense that a climax is near. For instance, you can:
Think very hard about something totally unconcerned with sex.
Pinch yourself hard.
Bite the pillow.
Some men try to treat themselves with a local anesthetic gel. This product is advertised to the public as a good way to 'damp down' sexual sensation in the male organ. But the local anesthesia can 'dull' the sex sensation for the partner and secondly it can sometimes cause a distressing skin sensitivity reaction. In more severe cases, it is best to consult an expert for treatment. Ayurvedic and Unani systems of therapy are effectively treating this problem.
Naturoveda offers a treatment combining Ayurvedic, Unani and Yoga principles in the treatment of Premature Ejaculation with good results.
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